-- Monday, January 5, 2009 ; 1:38 PM ♥♥
speak of my mind. *the below content doesnt refer to all guys.
i have to voice out! so many girlfriends around me are having problems with their relationship or marriage. it seems like so common now to see broken marriage. =( . i just cant understand WHATS WRONG with those GUYS nowadays?? they want face, want freedom, everything want want want.. and its always the girls that have to bear everything, handle everything or even to endure everything! its so farking true that they just cant take stress like how girls do. they like to say we women are irritating pussy and like to complain. but if is them who try bearing a child, i doubt they can go through it. yes, i do thinks that women tends to complain more but its better than running away or avoiding. i cannot accept guys that goes out and had fun themselves while you at home alone bearing the child for him or looking after the child! using the word STRESS just cannot be accepted as the reason for doing that. isnt it? aint the child yours too? kaozz. and i also cant tolerate guys scolding women as slut, and those who thinks that young mummies or single mum is a disgrace. you know what, if you guys dont fuck, this will NEVER happens okay! dont say it as if its only women are in the wrong, and you guys dont. __ wtf! and please, do you know why there are more single mum but not many single dad? its not that guys are better, its obviously proving that we women are not heartless creatures like you guys and are more willing to face the consequences of our doings than you cowards! ASS _l_
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i always believe that women are much more tougher than men. although not physically but mentally. women tends to have the ability to handle more things than men. not just because im a woman that's why im saying this. its just the men are getting more and more .......... nowadays. =X. in the past, women only stays at home, look after childrens, doing house chores, cook meals while men head out for work and be the income source. BUT, these days things are never the same. women not only had to take care of the home, look after childrens, they still have to go out and earn MONEY! women is now doing what the men had been doing. but how many men will be willing to do what women had to do? LOL. seriously, as far as i know, not many guys will stay home and do house chores for you. the more they will help is HIRE A MAID for you.
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for me personally, im proud to be a single mother. although, i dont wish that things turn out this way but i had to accept the fact that it is. the world is changing, so are the people. we cannot compare it to the past anymore. frankly speaking, how many people can stay on a marriage nowadays? not being negative here. just cannot deny, divorce rate is getting higher. =(. i had always longed for a relationship that never ends and im seriously one that will put all my heart and soul into it. i used to be someone who needs love more than anyone can imagine. i put in alot in every relationship so much that people used to laughed at me for being such a big fool. my mum used to say me, but i had never listen and in the end even causes giving my parents lots of troubles. maybe because im a stubborn girl, i keep believing that as long as i tried my best to maintain, it might work out. but its a big wrong. sometimes we had to accept that love is not something about how much you put in, you can get back that much. and a relationship is not about how one can do, is about how two person working on it together. maybe due to all those past experiences, for now, yes ive changed. no longer letting love to control me. no longer being a fool and giving trouble to my parents. i wish i will be a different person. truly, i dont wish to be like the one in the past. brand new year, it will be a new beginning of MY LIFE. cheeros!!
` matured men will never makes you worry, never makes you into tears.
tt's how life is =D
